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Facials: The Dirty Kind – Episode 91

This episode is a review of the hilarious and fantastic article entitled Why I Like Facials (The Dirty Kind) by Emily via XOJane.

The author explains not only why she likes dirty facials but why they are not degrading. Her fantastic tag-line is “My orgasms are a politics-free zone,” which is a great concept to apply to many other sex acts. Join me for this fabulous episode!

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Pregnancy Options: What to Do? – Episode 90

Finding yourself pregnant can be a shocking and difficult time, especially if you were not planning the pregnancy.

This episode is meant to, without judgement, give you a brief overview of the many options there are open to you. You can choose to birth the baby or you can choose to terminate the pregnancy. Either choice you make, should be yours!

So, if you’re in need of a reminder of your options, check out this episode to hear a little bit more about some of your possible choices.

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Talking Sex in a New Relationship! – Episode 85

Beginning a new relationship is always a new and exciting time for everyone involved! And in the midst of all this excitement, you grow to care more about this person and begin to share sexual experiences!

So why do you need to talk about sex in a new relationship?

For a bunch of reasons, really! Having “that” conversation allows you to open up about your past and any important experiences you want to share with your partner. It also ensures that they know where you stand on a myriad of sexual matters and emotional matters. Talking about sex with your up-and-coming main squeeze allows you to set the stage for the rest of the relationship, by being honest, open, and raw!

In order to share what you want, you have to know what you want! Also, be sure to talk about some of the sexual safety issues that might arrive, especially going to get tested for STDs together!

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Do You Feel Like Having Sex or Not? – Episode 80

This episode looks at the many different factors that affect your decision to have sex. There are two primary components of your decision:

  • Motivations
    • Your energy level
    • How busy you feel
    • How frustrated or stressed you feel
  • Considerations
    • How physically/emotionally satisfying sex will be if you choose to engage
    • Thoughts about time spent having sex vs. doing other things
    • Will you feel guilty if you say no (you shouldn’t!)

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Your Sexual History: How Positive Relationship Experiences Shape You – Episode 76

This episode continues the discussion of many of the positive things that we experience in our lives as sexual, relational, and emotional women. The last episode looked at the positive sexual experiences that you can find in our past, ans this episode talks about the positive things that can come from good relationships.

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Your Sexual History: How Positive Sexual Experiences Shape You – Episode 75

This episode continues the Your Sexual History series, which has thus far looked at some of the “erotic wounds” that can be found in our past. This episode leaves the negative behind… And focuses on the positive!

Listen to today’s episode for a reminder that focusing on the good things about your sexual past is so important!

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Your Sexual History: How Negative Relationship Experiences Shape You – Episode 74

Today’s episode continues the Your Sexual Self series, and focuses on the ways that negative relationships can shape your sexual life and beliefs. Being aware about the way you think of yourself sexually, is so important!

Join me today as we look at the many ways that rough relationship experiences can influence you:

  • emotional/verbal abuse
  • infidelity
  • regret
  • sadness when a relationship ends
  • broken trust

Jump on in; it’s your very-important-self!

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Your Sexual History: How Negative Sexual Experiences Shape You – Episode 73

This episode continues the Your Sexual History series, and begins the focus on how negative experiences can shape you. Of course positive ones can too, but I wanted to begin the discussion with some of the ways that sexuality can “go bad” or cause you to bear “erotic wounds.” In future episodes we will talk about the flip side to negative sexual experiences… Positive ones.

Since it is often more difficult to discuss our negative experiences, it can also be a good place to start. Although they shape us and can influence who we are, the more we talk about them as reality, the more we can start to reframe our ideas about our sexuality by understanding issues that we have that we might need to overcome to find our best sexual selves.

In this episode we’ll look at the following issues affecting women and their sexuality:

  • Rape/assault
  • Interactions with creepy people
  • Imagery/sexual violence in the media
  • “Bad” sexual experiences
  • An unwanted pregnancy or abortion

Difficult though it may be to discuss, we have to start somewhere…

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The Frisky Details: Emotional and Verbal Foreplay at Its Best – Episode 55

This episode is the grande final on a discussion of foreplay that has spanned across 4 episodes!

Sometimes we can forget about the sexy and easy options open to us during foreplay, and no aspect of our sex lives do we forget so often as the emotional side of foreplay. When we think “foreplay” we think of the physical moves that get two people to ultimately come. But what about the emotional moves that open the pathway to the pleasures within…?

Whether you’re helping with the chores (what a sexy thing, men out there!), having phone sex to spice up the night, or using your eye contact to tantalize, emotional and verbal foreplay is where its at!

Also, don’t forget to check out Foreplay: An Overview of Options and Fresh Ideas, and The Frisky Details: Physical and Sexual Foreplay at Its Best, Part One, and Part Two!

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Why Your Sons Should See You Naked – Episode 51

This Episode discusses an article written by Rita Templeton, called Why I Want My Sons to See Me Naked.

In this article, Rita explains why allowing her four young sons to see her naked is important to her. She talks about how she is glad to be the first female body that they see so that they can growing up knowing how women are really supposed to look (i.e. imperfect and lovely, not airbrushed).

Her thoughts express something that is really important in our world today… Teaching both sons and daughters to respect and admire naked bodies of all varieties, without judgement.

Check out today’s episode for the discussion!

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