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Scientific Sex: Study and Learn! – Episode 96

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This episode looks at an article written about science measuring sex! The article was written by Jane Ussher for The Independent. It’s called Sex in the Name of Science: What We Can Learn From Studying Intercourse. Check it out!

It brings up some really great points. For example, it causes you to think about if you would ever have sex for the sake of science or in a lab.

The article also discusses how our sure to ideas about “normal” sexual performance and “dysfunction” came about.

Join me today as we go down the rabbit hole in the name of science!

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Talking Sex in a New Relationship! – Episode 85

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Beginning a new relationship is always a new and exciting time for everyone involved! And in the midst of all this excitement, you grow to care more about this person and begin to share sexual experiences!

So why do you need to talk about sex in a new relationship?

For a bunch of reasons, really! Having “that” conversation allows you to open up about your past and any important experiences you want to share with your partner. It also ensures that they know where you stand on a myriad of sexual matters and emotional matters. Talking about sex with your up-and-coming main squeeze allows you to set the stage for the rest of the relationship, by being honest, open, and raw!

In order to share what you want, you have to know what you want! Also, be sure to talk about some of the sexual safety issues that might arrive, especially going to get tested for STDs together!

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Your Sexual History: Fighting For Your Best Sexual Self Using Belief – Episode 78

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This episode ends the grand finale that is the Your Best Sexual Self series!

Let’s continue the fight together!

This episode focuses on the power/weapon of belief, specifically believing in:

  • Your purpose
  • Your innate worth and value as a person
  • Your ability to…
    • Have the sex you want!
    • Have the relationships you want!
  • Your future (and it ain’t going to be like your past!)
  • Your partnerships

Check out this episode for the final step in launching headfirst into your best sexual self!

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Your Sexual History: Fighting For Your Best Sexual Self Using Knowledge – Episode 77

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This episode begins the grand finale that is the Your Best Sexual Self series!

Fighting for your best sexual self might sound a little bit intense, but intensity is often necessary when you’re dealing with reteaching/reminding yourself to have the sexuality you want in the way you want!

This episode focuses on the power/weapon of knowledge, namely knowledge about:

  • Your past and your resulting feelings
  • Your patterns–physically, emotionally, and sexually
  • Your self!!!
    • What is it that you want and don’t want?
    • What are your beliefs about yourself and your actions?

Check out this episode for the first step in launching headfirst into your best sexual self!

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Your Sexual History: How Positive Relationship Experiences Shape You – Episode 76

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This episode continues the discussion of many of the positive things that we experience in our lives as sexual, relational, and emotional women. The last episode looked at the positive sexual experiences that you can find in our past, ans this episode talks about the positive things that can come from good relationships.

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Your Sexual History: How Positive Sexual Experiences Shape You – Episode 75

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This episode continues the Your Sexual History series, which has thus far looked at some of the “erotic wounds” that can be found in our past. This episode leaves the negative behind… And focuses on the positive!

Listen to today’s episode for a reminder that focusing on the good things about your sexual past is so important!

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Your Sexual History: How Negative Relationship Experiences Shape You – Episode 74

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Today’s episode continues the Your Sexual Self series, and focuses on the ways that negative relationships can shape your sexual life and beliefs. Being aware about the way you think of yourself sexually, is so important!

Join me today as we look at the many ways that rough relationship experiences can influence you:

  • emotional/verbal abuse
  • infidelity
  • regret
  • sadness when a relationship ends
  • broken trust

Jump on in; it’s your very-important-self!

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Your Sexual History: How Negative Sexual Experiences Shape You – Episode 73

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This episode continues the Your Sexual History series, and begins the focus on how negative experiences can shape you. Of course positive ones can too, but I wanted to begin the discussion with some of the ways that sexuality can “go bad” or cause you to bear “erotic wounds.” In future episodes we will talk about the flip side to negative sexual experiences… Positive ones.

Since it is often more difficult to discuss our negative experiences, it can also be a good place to start. Although they shape us and can influence who we are, the more we talk about them as reality, the more we can start to reframe our ideas about our sexuality by understanding issues that we have that we might need to overcome to find our best sexual selves.

In this episode we’ll look at the following issues affecting women and their sexuality:

  • Rape/assault
  • Interactions with creepy people
  • Imagery/sexual violence in the media
  • “Bad” sexual experiences
  • An unwanted pregnancy or abortion

Difficult though it may be to discuss, we have to start somewhere…

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Your Sexual History: How Your Body Image Shapes You – Episode 72

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This episode is another from the Your Sexual History series, which focuses on reflecting on the forces at work in your life that impact your sexuality, your sense of your sexual self, and your positive and negative associations with sex, intimacy, and relationships.

This show looks more deeply at how your body image is impacted by:

  • Parents and other family
  • Peer groups
  • Society
  • Seeing healthy/unhealthy relationships
  • Physical changes throughout your life

This is another extended episode, so be sure to check it out!

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Your Sexual History: How Your Parents and Your Family Shape You – Episode 71

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This episode is the first in a series about our sexual histories: the scars, triumphs, and memories that we carry with us everyday.

I wanted to start the series off by explaining the purpose of what I’m trying to achieve by talking in detail about all of this, and I also wanted to start us off by looking back (to perhaps our childhood) to think about the deep, heavy ways that parents and family affect our understanding of ourselves, our sexuality, and our sexual beings.

The way your parents did or did not talk to you about sex and the way they (passively, aggressively, or passive aggressively) stated their ideas about sexuality and how you should be approaching the sexual world all still inform your ideas about your sexual and physical self and self worth.

Join me as we spend a lengthier episode discussing some of our “core erotic wounds” and values.

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