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The Sexuality of Mutual Grooming – Episode 106

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Mutual grooming is really about bonding and closeness. Whether or not you feel inclined to pluck each others’ eyebrows or other hairs or simply apply lotion and brush each others’ hair, mutual grooming is a great bonding activity. Since this usually happens during naked time, mutual grooming is also innately sexual!

There are many reasons why mutual grooming is a great benefit to you and your partner:

  • Touching each other shows love and mutual concern for each other
  • Grooming becomes a full-body event, and often becomes very sexual
  • Touching new, fresh parts of each others’ bodies allows you to discover scars, birthmarks, or other idiosyncratic things about each other that create great conversations!

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5 Sex Tips “Sexperts” Swear By – Episode 98

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It’s time for some advice from the experts… Let’s see what they know!

It’s always nice to get some sexual information from people that know all about sex… sex experts!

Join me for this episode as we look at 5 tips for keeping your sex life and your relationship fresh…

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5 Aspects of Intimate Relationships That Are Underrated – Episode 94

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This episode discusses some of the lesser known “underrated” things that make being in a committed, intimate relationship special and fantastic!

Besides the obvious great parts of a relationship, like having a great date night or enjoying a wonderful session of 69, be sure not to overlook some of the easy-to-achieve and emotional reminders of just how great you two are together!

There are plenty more than 5, but I wanted to focus on these points today:

  • Sharing hopes, dreams, and hardships
  • Spending time “working” together
  • Remembering
  • Saying “What I like about you…”
  • Spending time apart

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Using Your Senses During Oral Sex! – Episode 87

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Oral sex is not for the faint of heart, so whether you already enjoy this ancient sexual activity or not, here are some tips to make the experience even better for you and your partner!

The senses rule our experiences in everything that we do! Why shouldn’t we let them take control during oral sex? 69 or not, oral sex can be a very sensory time for all. Let your senses decide…

  • Sight – take in the sights and soak up the view…
  • Taste – oh, you know what I mean…
  • Touch – use your mouth or add other body parts in the mix!
  • Smell – you know there is a smell down there… Enjoy it!
  • Hearing – though you might not always notice, there are always sounds during oral sex…

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Alcohol and Sex: Pros and Cons – Episode 79

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Alcohol and sex are often mixed together, sometimes with great sexual outcomes and sometimes with not-so-great ones!

This episode is for those of you that have ever thought about having a drink or two to loosen up the gears in the bedroom… Or have already tried it!

Join me as I talk about some of the pros:

  • Physical and sexual relaxation
  • Letting go of inhibitions and worries or preoccupations
  • Feeling more sensitive to and excited by touch

And some of the cons:

  • Too much bodily relaxation depresses the system and sometimes makes genitals function “below capacity”
  • You might get too sleepy
  • You are more inclined to make risky sexual choices or to be in situations where others might take advantage of you

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The Pros and Cons of Having Sick Sex – Episode 68

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This episode is a brief one that might just apply to you during this time of year.

Having sex when you’re sick… Should you or shouldn’t you? It’s up to you really, but here are some thoughts about the pros and cons of having sex when you’re sick:

  • You might spread it
  • Your healthy partner might not want to hear snot gurgling around in your head while you guys do it!
  • You might feel gross or alternately hot/cold
  • It could be a nice way to say “thank you” to the person who has been nursing you back to health (if this person is your partner)
  • It might give you a chance to be close with them again since usually sick people get avoided even when they live with their lover
  • It could some much-needed exercise!

If you decide that having sex while you’re sick is for right you… Check out this episode for some tips to get yourself in the mood and feeling less monstrous!

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The Sexuality of Dance and Rhythm – Episode 62

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Dance is a highly sensual, spiritual, and often sexual activity. We first encounter rhythm as we hear our mother’s heart beat when we are still growing inside her.

After this, rhythm makes our world spin. The rhythm of waking and sleeping, dancing and sex!

This episode takes a closer look at some of the dances that we consider sexually expressive and just why they are! Like…

  • Tango
  • Salsa
  • West African Dance
  • Bellydance
  • Booty Dance

Think about your body during these dances… Sweating, spinning, breathing deeply, heart racing, moving to the rhythm… A lot like sex, right?

Which dance could you choose to get your sexual juices flowing?

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Kissing: My Mixed Feelings About the Smooch – Episode 58

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The topic of this episode might shock you…

I think that kissing can be overrated! Ahhhh! Do you believe it?

If you’re like me, of course you do!

Kissing is a romantic, passionate, and usually fantastic activity, but it can often be one of the main focuses of sex at the expense of other areas getting some attention. Perfect as a foreplay option and often as a way to emotionally bond and physically connect, it sometimes should be put on the back burner in favor of other desires!

Join me for this episode as I talk about my opinions about the classic “makeout session,” the history of kissing, and the origins of the action that we’ve come to equate with “true love.”

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Genital Juices: What’s Going on Down There? – Episode 57

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This episode wades through the many juices that we come to know in our genital regions! Of course there’s our periods (don’t forget about period sex!), sweat (which is healthy and natural for you!) and your natural vaginal and cervical discharge.

Lubrication and the many other liquids that we encounter in this area are something that we usually fail to talk about. I know that personally, I always thought that my partner’s juices were the ones that dominated the scene after sex, but little did I know it was really my body making most of the lubrication that I was seeing. Your internal self is mysterious place, one that works so well that we rarely even know all of its secrets!

Our own discharge and lubrication can depend on our hormone levels, our diet, health status, and our time of the month!

Check out this episode for more info!

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Getting in the Mood Series: Dealing with Distractions – Episode 29

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This episode is the first in my Getting in the Mood Series…

There are so many things that can distract you from getting in the mood when sexy times begin! Or maybe you’re already in the mood, but something happens that stops the rhythm and the ruins the mood. Although the distractions are many, there are ways to deal with them! Noises, pets, and temperature changes can all affect women when they are focusing on having an orgasm, and this episode highlights some easy things you can do to take charge of keeping the mood alive! Like burps, fart, queefs, and sneezes, sometimes a distraction can be funny even while it interrupts an important moment…

It’s always best to be prepared of you’ve been having trouble getting in the mood lately, so that external distractions and internal ones (like the cleanup from having period sex) doesn’t get you down! Check out this episode to learn more!

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